So hot it melted the ignition coil??? That suggests the engine (or, the spot where that coil is) was something like 700 degrees. Unless, of course, the coil boot was actually torn (or not fully seated) and arc-welded itself in. Unfortunately, the concept of "coolant in the oil means the head gasket is bad" is not the only option. You can get oil in the coolant, coolant in the oil, coolant in the combustion chamber and combustion gasses in the coolant. All 4 options mean a blown head gasket. Now, you have to ask yourself... In a best-case scenario, you're looking at replacing the front head gasket and/or head (which can be done with the engine in the van). You're looking at a partial (or full) coolant loss, which will still exist after any engine repair. You're looking at somehow decoupling the fused partial coil plug from the tube and replacing that too. And then, there's anything else that may have been damaged (melted knock sensor wires and anything in the rear head). So, by my math, you'd be looking at probably $3-5k worth of repair work on the HOPE that it's only an issue with the front head. Once you reach that level, you start thinking about the trade-in value (for a push/pull/tow) or dropping in a used engine.