Not sure if you are open to alternate suggestions, but here is my idea:
Rent a smaller pop-up tent trailer.
This will have an indoor/oudoor grill and cook stove. It will also have a small 3-way fridge/freezer. It uses DC power (from the van) in transit, AC at campsites with hookups and propane at sites without hookups. You could probably rent one for less than the cost of purchasing all the items in your list. A smaller one means that you won't have to mess with trailer brake controllers and 7-wire trailer harness. You would have to run a wire for the fridge though.
Rent a smaller pop-up tent trailer.
This will have an indoor/oudoor grill and cook stove. It will also have a small 3-way fridge/freezer. It uses DC power (from the van) in transit, AC at campsites with hookups and propane at sites without hookups. You could probably rent one for less than the cost of purchasing all the items in your list. A smaller one means that you won't have to mess with trailer brake controllers and 7-wire trailer harness. You would have to run a wire for the fridge though.