The AWD XLE Premium hunt along with truecar, dealership lies and the magic towing pkg

oh boy... buying a vehicle sure is a way to stay occupied.

Been looking for the following:

XLE Premium in AWD
Any exterior color except white
mudguards
rubber floor mats
roof rack cross bars
cargo net

Building it on Toyota.com we get to 42.063$ MSRP for it. Using the USAA car buying service with two different zip codes we got quotes from 37.216-39.800$.
Nobody seems to have any AWD in stock and still keeps on calling and sending me emails to come in to buy a FWD instead. I keep explaining that AWD is a must and hence its a Sienna. If I wanted FWD there would be a different manufacturer in mind. They don't get it.

One dealer Lustine in Woodbridge VA has 3 different sales people call me. One of them claims that she has a 2015 XLE Premium AWD in green on the lot. I asked her to double check on green but she insists its green. Checking their inventory they have no XLE AWD's at all but they insist for me to come in so they can sell me one.

How come to the black interior is only available on the SE? It makes no sense to me either.

Asking the towing package and how its not available on the website the new claim is that the website is wrong.
This post on the towing forum http://www.siennachat.com/forum/69-...sienna-xle-awd-down-1500-lbs.html#post1371650 seems to contradict the dealer.

Does anyone know if the 2016 Sienna would offer and XLE Premium with black interior and towing?

Did other people have the same issues trying to find their vehicle?
Price seems about right according to the prices post here: http://www.siennachat.com/forum/72-shopping-test-driving-service/183298-2015-prices-paid.html