Everybody is different. We all have different needs, and of course, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
I have a convertible I enjoy, but I've always had a pickup as a "beater". This past year, I managed to total a deer, and the insurance company then totalled my truck. I had a neighbour selling a very low mileage Nissan pickup with AC, but never enjoyed driving it. So, I thought about it, and decided that I would enjoy a minivan.
After doing internet and Consumer Reports research, as well as checking old Edmunds and other on-line road tests, and thinking about my budget, I decided that i'd get either a Honda Odyssey (3rd gen), or a Sienna (second gen). Started searching and driving both. Found the Odyssey to be quite a bit noisier than the Sienna, and I preferred the fit and finish of the interior of the Sienna. The Odyssey seemed to drive better, and the third row seat was somewhat faster/easier to stow. I did not like the sliding door track and seam on the side of the Odyssey, while I thought Toyota did a much neater job with the track on the Sienna. Finally, of the ones I drove, I found the Sienna to be tighter, with less rattles, than the Odysseys I drove.
I ended up with an 09 LE, with the leather, power seats, power sliding doors, and power hatch options. I'm a bit worried about the possibility of a repair issue with the VVT-I mechanism, as my VIN falls within the range, but at 53,000 KM, there are no signs of trouble. It does not burn any oil, or leak any other fluids. For a minivan, it has pretty good acceleration, but it is sure no sports car when it comes to steering response and braking. But hey! it's a minivan.
For me, the Sienna was the better choice, but with the possible exception of transmission reliability, the Odyssey seemed to be a pretty good choice as well.